My wife of 27 years my highschool sweetheart has moved out she said she cant take it any more (my Depression)we have 3 teenage kids they are with me still. she said she was fiing for divorce but then backed off.
I dont want to break up. my self and kids went to family reunion out of town when we got back I seen she put 150 miles on car said she just went a few places this got me upset couse I new it was a lie and my imagination was taking over my thoughts, we did have sex later and I was very aggressive wth her and hurt her but she never said anything till she went to the doctors and then filed a police report I have never physically harmed her in 27 years I did not meen to hurt her then?? she cant look at me now, All I really wanted in life was to be her and my kids provider an protector now I am at a lost as to what to do. I realize I take out alot of my frustrations out on her, and I know I am wrong.
She does talk and has met at a bar at least once with a guy from work who is also married.she is 46 I dont know if this is all becouse of me or maybe menopause? I was totlly tore up for a few weeks I am getting stronger each day I am self employed am afraid i might lose my business as well as her. I really need some advise
