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Hi, Its me again, but this time i am in a pissed off state. Tonight i was out with my friend who i think is a lesbian and another female friend. But what i really didn't like tonight was that she was all over the two of us, touching and feeling which was quite inappropriate. I mean if a man did this i wouldn't stand for it so why should i when my friend is groping and touching me and my friend in this manner. It is simply not good enough. How do i tell her that it makes me uncomfortabe. To me it is an evasion of privacy, after all it is my body. Please help, thank you. Always CC2

Update On My Friend Being A Lesbian I was out with her last night and she annouces she is seeing a guy, with the past two weeks. But what has me confused, is that, for the past two years since he moved to our area he showed he was interested in her and asked her out. But she always turned him down and made no bones about that she didn't like him. She said he was stalking her at one stage. And now she turns around two years later and is dating him. I don't know what to say to this. I am trying to be happy for her and would be thrilled if this is what will make her happy, but i just think it is very weird, to be so adament about not liking someone and then go out with them. In answer to all the questions, I myself am straight and married. I have never brought up the topic with my friend about my suspicions of her sexuality. The last thing i want to do is hurt her.

I met my husband online, chatted to him for about 4 months online then on the phone for about a month before i met up with him, i met him in a public area, with a friend. So why don't you ask her out and tell her bring along with a few of her friend and yours, that way ye can get to know each other a little with not so much pressure on either of you.

My friend who i have known for my whole life(28 years) i think is a lesbian. I am going to give incidents and let me know what you think. It all happened about a year ago. We were out having a good time at a club when she kissed my married sister on the lips it wasn't a peck it was a 'KISS'. One night coming home from a night out she reached for my hand and held it with her fingers intertwined like you would with a partner. A few weeks ago she grabbed my (female) friends butt with her two hands and starting squeezing and feeling it, she also ran her open hand accross my belly and then onto my butt. She has never had a relationship with a man, she kisses men but thats about it, she lost her virginity to a stranger because she wanted to get it over and done with. I don't know maybe i am reading too much into it. Can you offer some advice?