It's not an easy story to tell but i'll try to make it short.
My wife and I have been married almost 9 years, but 16 months ago she told me that she wasn't happy with the way that the marriage was going. Things didn't improve and we decided to take some time apart 4 months ago(at this time I really believed that my marriage was over). During this time I had relations with an old friend from University, and she's now pregnant.
This week, my wife found out about this she didn't seem angry or hurt, but her response was to announce that she's been seeing someone else for some time (maybe before we separated - she didn't want to say for how long). I then realised that after all that's happened, I still love my wife with all my heart, and I wouldn't wish to hurt her, but the fact that I'm going to be a father with someone else (4000 miles away), makes me feel like I've lost her forever, and it makes me realise how unhappy I will be without her (even with the bliss of a child). Can someone give me some advise, as I feel so bad with myself that I don't think I can cope.
