TheAztec68

Hey well I've been trying to go out with great girl that I really care about and I've asked her out and told her how much she means to me and all that. But ok after I asked her she tells me that shes at a weird moment in her life and really doesn't want to go out with anyone and would like to only be friends until she has fiqured things out. So what I'm trying to say is what is her decision I mean I've left her alone for almost a month to let her fiqure thing out but I've made calls most every weekend to ask her if she wanted to do something because we both live in different cities and are both doing something after school with other peoplr its hard to do things during the week so we really only have time on the weekend but anyways what do you think I should do just stay friend on do things mostly almost everyother weekend or ask her once and for all??? Please help me out!

hey thank you for the help the only thing is that when watching a movie I mean I put my arm around her and she starts to warm up to me then all of a sudden when I get up to say like throw something away she backs away when I sit back down so I try and get her back to feel comfortable but it takes awhile I'm not sure if thats only because we have been at her house with her parents home or because of me getting up I'm not sure.

Hey all i need some help I've started to go out with this girl from a different city. We have been talking online for almost a whole year now we have got to know each other the only problem was that we couldn't meet due to the fact neighter of use wanted to have our parents find out who whe were going out with. So now that we both have got our license we have started to go out. Even though we have had 3 dates right in a row I've known her for almost a whole year the only problem is that we haven't seen what each other looked like. So of our 3 dates to have been spent at her house wear I have meet her parents. But anyways I'm a shy guy and need to find the right words to say how I like her and also the words to how to ask her to be my girl friend. PLEASE HELP!!

Hey well I'm a shy guy I admit that I've started going out with this girl I've been talking to for a year. We live in different cities and we meet online nd have got to know each other pretty good. Now that we both can drive we finally meet 3 nights ago. And since then I've been over to her house twice I really like her but I don't know what to say to tell her how I fell. Shes a great girl that now that we have seen each other it has made it easy. I just am shy I would like to ask her to be my girl friend but I'm not sure on how to ask her. Please!!!! Help a guy out!!!