New here - just thought I'd put in my 2 cents worth....
MY SO and I broke up 2 months ago after 2 (seemingly) wonderful years together. In the early days we talked a lot about previous relationships - he told me he'd been with prostitutes, picked up women in bars etc, just to see if he was still 'attractive' to women after losing a lot of weight and being rejected by his wife. In our last few months together he was spending more and more time out of town (ostensibly on business.......right......), and I found out he'd formed a 'close' friendship with a co-worker in the other city. Then, I started seeing weird sites coming up on the computer we shared......he was becoming more and more secretive.......whether he was just having emotional affairs, physical affairs, prostitutes etc, I never really found out - but - trust your gut - if he did it before, he'll do it again, and again, and again - comes from very low self-worth and self-esteem.
I, personally, will NEVER ever trust a man who admits to having cheated on ANYONE - whatever the reason, whatever the excuse - there is NO excuse......NONE - and to say that there is, well, that's just excusing and enabling behaviour.
Sorry if that sounds a little harsh - but coming from a relationship with a drug/sex addict...........it's my bottom line right now.
And you see all the thousands of guys on dating sites on the net - 'attached - partner not included' - pretty f***** up!!! What a World!!!
