DariaM239

He lived far. He's 25 and I'm 28 🙃 this is what I get for giving a younger guy a chance, haha. But no it was not the first date! We would always meet up in the city beforehand, txt everyday and talk on the phone for the first few months. And yeah it seems like I did dodge a bullet lol but yes you're right! I appreciate your advise, you make a valid point 🙂

Nope! Everything was super spontaneous tbh haha I'm crazy. We both had work the next day too. Hooking up was never going to be an option for us cause I was on my period anyways (and he knew that as well) but he still asked me to come over. I was going to wake him up before I left, but he just happened to wake up before i got the chance. And oh man! How did you guys end it? Did you both communicate it to each other?

You're doing too much and you're overwhelming her. You probably don't mean to come off that way but maybe it's a bit too much for her. Although, if I were her, I would've been direct with you and just say straight up that I'm not interested. Perhaps she's too shy to say anything but based on her behavior, I would take this as a hint that she obv wants nothing to do with you. Cause believe me when a girl is interested she'll make it known! Best of luck to you!

YES, I was under no obligation to stay either. Definitely will have to let this go. Thank you for your response!

Ok yeah I'm a little dramatic lmao you're right I don't even know him like that. Appreciate your response!

So true. It's good that I saw his behavior now rather than much later. I didn't handle the situation well either. But yupp I have to let it gooooo , thanks for the advice!

You are right 100%. I ***ed up. That wasn't the right way to go about it. I was only thinking of how I felt at that moment and not how he was going to feel about it afterwards. Even if my friend had not picked me up, I was going to make it back home, regardless. Also, I wasn't going to sneak out. I was going to wake him up but he just happened to wake up first. Oh well

Ugh so sorry this happened to you. That fcking sucks and she's a ***. She clearly is going through things with her own self and does not have the capacity right now to love or care for anyone else. It's going to hurt a lot right now but it really is true what they say. Time heals everything. Definitely don't contact her anymore and if by chance she reaches out, do your best to ignore her. Just know you'll be fine!! ❤️

Ok. So I've been dating recently and I started talking to some guy. We hit it off extremely well. ***, he was more into me than I was in the beginning. So after several encounters and texting non stop, he asked that I spent the night with him. I agreed and told him way before I even left my house that we were not going to hook up and he was fine with that. So I get there we have a great time, watched movies, cuddled, no hooking up. And then he falls asleep. It 2am I'm not sleepy at all, I honestly want to go home because I was just uncomfortable, but I had no way of getting home, I am an hour and a half away from my house. Then at that moment my best guy friend (we've been bestfriends for 14 years) txted me saying he just got out of work (I txt my bestfriends all the time) and I asked him if he could pick me up. He said sure, I'll be there in 40 min. As my bestfriend is getting closer, I start getting ready to head out. Then the guy wakes up and says "whats wrong, where are you going"? Me: I'm going home Him: What do you mean you're going home, how are you getting home?? Me: Oh it's fine my friend is picking me up. Him: Your friend is picking you up at this time all the way here??? Me: Yeah, it's no big deal, we do stuff like this for each other all the time. So then my friend arrives, he takes me home. All is good, at least I thought so... Ever since that day the guy started acting super weird. And I apologized to him for leaving and he responded by saying "Na you just dont *** w/ me, you just wanted to be with your friend" I said "Oh no stop that ***, cause I had a great time with you" and then he said ok. SO later that weekend, we were supposed to hang out and I txted him asking him if we were still on for the movies. He never answered my txt and later that night he posted on social media showing that he was out and about and I could see a girl was there. Idk if she was with him or he just took the picture to make it seem like he was with her with the intention of me looking at it. Regardless, he completely ghosted me! Still has never responded and he even unfollowed me on social media. Yes I am hurt because we were doing SO WELL. So now my question is, what do you think went wrong? I've asked my friends and coworkers what they think. Obviously they all said that he’s clearly immature and definitely felt a type of way that I left, and not only that my left with another guy (even if that was my bestfriend). To me at that moment I saw nothing wrong with it cause my friend is my best friend of over 10 years but I can understand how it may seem weird to someone looking at it from the outside. So yeah guys, I'm hurt 😞 cause like I said earlier we were doing so well, he was super sweet and caring with me and now he's ghosted me. And my pathetic self even reached out to him and still nothing haha.