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If your asking a question like that - "do we NEED to have oral sex first"... then it sounds like ur not very mature or know what ur doing and wouldnt be having sex for the right reason..

Sounds like you are having sex coz u feel like you NEED to just like u think u NEED to have oral sex before accual sex.

Id respect her.. but be observant of her and try get to know her alot more to see if she deserves to be respected kinda thing

Just keep rubbing it with a firm grip thinking of wateva or whoeva and dont stop it could take a while but when sperm comes out u will know it has.. it doesn't feel anything like peeing really..

Either way. God created girls AND guys for a reason. Gay is wrong.

Lips.

I mainly get turned on by the girl sitting on me with her legs spread ahh cant contain meself then lol and anything to do with rubbing her breasts or waist against me - I love girls waists

The guy will feel good for dating an older chick and all his mates'll worship him for it. I like the idea of older chicks, im with a chick 2 years older than me now

Ya.

Shy guys like shy girls coz they can relate to one another, while outgoing guys find shy girls cute. I like shy girls coz they are less noticed so u dont have 1000 guys goin after your girl lol nah

I prbly started whn i was about 8 but orgasmed first time when i was 10 or something like that

im 19 and wouldn't date at 16 year old.

hey.

Im a christian and am still a virgin at 19 and plan to be until i get married. I think what you are doing is the right thing and i am happy to hear someone who is brave/bold enough to 'go that way'.

God loves you for what you are doing and that you have come to get to know him. I pray you walk with christ goes well

Dude. If she doesn't wanna have sex dont make her feel like she has to coz she shouldn't have to. Also she shouldn't really have to give u an orgasm either.. but if she doesn't wanna kiss you then theres a problem.

Hey.

Being 19 i dont have any advice that would make sense or be useful.

Just letting you know that im hoping it all works out for you and your kids!

It sounds as though she is quite confused herself and may be trying to find out the answer to the same question by experimenting

Yeah thats what i mean dont try recite every word for word and movement for movement.

I shouldn't of said it was corny because i would do a simular thing... kinda i guess but yea i like to think of original, creative ideas of asking girls out and he has thought of one so yeah credit to him

One thing that makes it 'hard' for me is that she's 2 years older than me lol but she doesn't act 2 years older than me she's a kind of crazy/weird girl in a really like-able cute way lol + she's hot as

Im 'seeing' this chick who lives 2hours by train from me so its a bit of a long distant relationship- damn it, coz i really like her and she's the first chick that i would accually like to 'date' for real.

Anyway, im usually a really bad person to talk to on the phone and i always got nothing to say blablabla and i get nervous and always ask a question and once she answers i ask another one haha i prbly sound like an 'answer machine' that just ask question after question with no feedback ha

Anywayz last night i rang her and we talked for 5hours straight which is my god the best chat ive had on the phone ever lol when i first rang i was nervous and was thinking id last about 20mins at the most ha it was from 11 till 4am we talked so yeah lol

Our convo was nice flowing, lots of listening from both of us and she said that i was doing most the talking which was suprising coz i usually got nothing to say lol

The reason im writing this is because i spoke to her for so long last night i feel as though im out of stuff to say on the phone now especially when i didn't have much ideas in the first place lol and yeah i can just talk about junk alot and just crack sarcastic jokes but i dont know if she'd be thinking 'oh this is like last time we talked his the same old same old everytime on the phone- his getting boring' you know?

I forget my point.. if you got anything to say, say it coz yeah i forget what i was asking haha

Dude, thats sounded way to structured lol

You can't say 'after she asks ill put my hand on her hip and the other on her face blabla bla' ahaha coz if u have it all planned out and it will seriously not go the plan because everything changes when ur with a girl and yeah u'll start getting nervous coz your 'structured asking out session' will be all ruined and u'll have to think on your feet ha

Its best to just go be yourself.. play some hangman if you want but forget the corny 'will you go out with me' and just laugh about playing hangman to lighten the mood and then ask her out when u feel comfortable

meh i dunno, thanks for listening

You have to be yourself! don't try to sell yourself.. listen to them, talk to them, do whatever you want..

 

the more you think about it being a date, the more nervious you'll be. I'm on the shy side, but i usally hide it with my sarcastic humor... and i laugh at myself if i do anything stupid... they like that, because i'm being real. If they don't like the real you.... then what's the point?

That sounds alot like me.

Im a bit on the shy side and the way i get around that is with sarcastic humor and laughing at myself - chicks dig that lol

19 and still kicking. Plan to last until im married as im a christian but u never know..

Go put on some music, play games do anything other than cut! Its not worth it mate

Write a letter to your girlfriend even if u dont give it to her just do it so you have something to do? i dunno but dont cut!

g'luck mate

Instead of doing that ring your girlfriend and talk to her about it. She can help you.

If you get back together with your ex you should tell him.. lies and secrecy aint good in friendships/relationships!

I was with this chick i had liked for afew years and we were at a party and we had wondered off into the darkness (it was at a beach) she pretty much jumped on me and started pashing me and moaning lol moaning gets me everytime- i got a bonerrrrr haha and she was like right on it and i felt kinda embarrased but i didn't really care i was alright about it enough to say 'your bending my boner' haha and she said back 'u shudnt even have one' ahaha hows that a repsonse for ya lol

She was flattered though lol she told me, she's just used to guys who have alot more experience and dont get erected until they put it in a vice or something meh lol

Anyways hope this shows there are others in the same boat, dun worry about it!

Dude just go with the flow.

About closing your eyes its best to keep them open i find looking at where ur about to kiss(the lips) and as ur lips meet slowly close your eyes.

I have a bad habit of opening my eyes to see if she has hers closed lolll idiot. She always does but if you are looking at them and they open their eyes then that could be awkward (i would laugh accually n so would she lol). But yeah best to keep your eyes closed u feel the kiss more that way!

My teeth have collided afew times in the past its nothing too bad.. kinda off putting but just avoid it, its hard to happen.

Saliva.. control it, not to much and not too littl. Just right. Just experinment dont drool over her lol

haha first kiss and she has done it before.. nerve racking ;-) u'll be aiight just go with the moment. Dont tighten up ur lips and dont open ur mouth to much ive kissed a girl before that i thought she was gonna eat my face haha

Also dont put ur tongue in to far! My girl has a bad habbit of doing that once in a while u can taste the bad taste from the back of her tongue blurr but no biggy only happened once or twice so yeah

good luck

What i find is if you try putting your hand on her knee while talking to her or if ur game on her upper thigh and if she twitches keep talking (to test if she is just ticklish or something lol or just didn't expect it) if she seems comfortable pucker up, if she doesn't budge at all when u first put ur hand there and just keeps smiling at you then you better pucker up or your gay

I like to hold her hand, play with it.. run my finger around it tickling kinda.. just subtle movements while talking to her.

Seriously. When your talking to her, look her in the eyes and smile alot(without it being fake smiles lol) try avoid corny 'you look really pretty today' go for the more humor side of convo joke around get her loosened up with some jokes and just have fun and if your lucky u might get a kiss out of it.. once u have the first kiss the others are so much easier haha