I finally stood my ground and decided to cut off all contact with my ex. We recently broke up due to constant fighting. I can't put my finger on one exact thing we fought about, but in the end, we decided to end the relationship.
Since then I've treid to cut contact, but I get weak when I miss him, or when he calls. I realzied that I've been spending my time and effort on him still as though he was my bf, but he's not and it's stopping me from moving on.
I delivered my decision to him last night when he called. I told him calmly how I felt. I was hurt that the love is no longer there, and it's easier for me to move on if I tlel myself that he's no longer there than to be reminded each time when i see him that it's the love that's no longer there.
He was upset that he's going to be dead to me. I see no other way. It was kind of hard today. I'm still used to talking to him after work, and even seeing him every night.
I wonder if he's missing me. I still would like to get back togehter, when he could appreciate the relationship more. I wonder if this is going to instead, just set him free to be with others.
What's been your story? Anybody else with similar experiences?
