Sure, he has no problem with having sex because basically he can have his cake and eat it too! Sorry for the expression,but this is all I have heard since my break up with my ex-boyfriend. How do you bring it up, well make the decision that you are not going to be controlled by him anymore. If he did love you he would be with you in the way you want! Basically, he could be waiting till he finds someone to fill your void! I suggest you run quickly and tell him that you need time to decide whether or not you need him, truly! About going boarding with him, well, if you are tempted you know what will happen, so the question is are you going to let him run you over like this! Basically, absense makes the heart grow fonder, don't give him what he wants, find something, friends, etc to fill his void and eventually he will be begging to have you back or you will have found someone who truly loves you! Oh, all the stuff you said sounds great and i hope you follow through with it! If it is easier, don't let him come over!
