I met this cute girl about 7 months ago. She lives in CA and I live in TX. I am 33 and ready to settle so I proposed on my second visit to CA and she accepted. She visits me every month and sometimes I visit her. I started to notice that she might have some issues with money. I usually pay for her flight ticket when she comes to visit me but she will also insist I pay for her cab fare from her home to the airport. She doesn't like spending her money at all. I have always paid each time we went out. She doesn't even offer to help. Both of us are earning roughly the same amount at the moment but she is lucky that she is staying with her parents and doesn't have a car note. I live by myself and have all these bills to put up with. In a year or so I will be making about three times the amount of money I am making now and she knows it. Her money issues are making me wonder if she loves me for my future financial potentials. Because we live so far apart and because I don't know her very well, I don't know if I am blowing things out of proportion or have a real concern here. I am trying to see if she can move down to TX with me but she is insisting that I need to marry her for her to make the move.
I don't know what to do. I want to know her better before walking down the isle. But the distance between us is not making that possible. I am confused and not sure what the direction to go.
