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HOLLY CRAP!!!!!!!!!!! Ok, so yesterday me and my ex (the one i'm trying to work things out with) were hanging out. He ends up meeting with....none other than the guy who was friends with the friend. When he saw me he couldn't believe it. He smirked....and looked at me like "what the hell". I can't tell u how uncomfortable i was!! So he was hanging out with my ex's sister, who he lives with. I don't think they're that close of friends. They just "use" each other for favors. Anyhow...he was over there for awhile...and he kind of hinted stuff at me. Like they were talking about the friend, whom my ex hasn't spoken to in a long time. The friend would just look at me. Then to make it more f up..that afternoon...the friend..the one i was with after my ex, texed me. It said something like: are u mad? why haven't u called me. Anyhow today i call him, after 3 weeks of no communication. I basically was like hey, I'm not mad at u, i just didn't feel like we were working out. Then i told him that i was speaking to my ex again. He took it well, (like i said he didn't seem to interested in me) so we just talked and he said that he wouldn't say anything....so i feel better. I don't know if the friend will say anything...i doubt it. Like i said before, they have been friends longer....i guess if my ex finds out, I'll just have to deal with it then.

HOLLY CRAP!!!!!!!!!!! Ok, so yesterday me and my ex (the one i'm trying to work things out with) were hanging out. He ends up meeting with....none other than the guy who was friends with the friend. When he saw me he couldn't believe it. He smirked....and looked at me like "what the hell". I can't tell u how uncomfortable i was!! So he was hanging out with my ex's sister, who he lives with. I don't think they're that close of friends. They just "use" each other for favors. Anyhow...he was over there for awhile...and he kind of hinted stuff at me. Like they were talking about the friend, whom my ex hasn't spoken to in a long time. The friend would just look at me. Then to make it more f up..that afternoon...the friend..the one i was with after my ex, texed me. It said something like: are u mad? why haven't u called me. Anyhow today i call him, after 3 weeks of no communication. I basically was like hey, I'm not mad at u, i just didn't feel like we were working out. Then i told him that i was speaking to my ex again. He took it well, (like i said he didn't seem to interested in me) so we just talked and he said that he wouldn't say anything....so i feel better. I don't know if the friend will say anything...i doubt it. Like i said before, they have been friends longer....i guess if my ex finds out, I'll just have to deal with it then.

Yeah...i know i should. I just don't know if i can. A part of me wants to because i don't want him to find out through someone else. Another part of me obviously doesn't because the chance he might find out is slim. So of course I'd rather just keep my mouth shut...and pray to god it never comes out. Yet...i you guys are right i should start off with a clean slate. Then again...if i do should i tell the friend????? I mean what if he gets upset that i told on him. I don't know....???

Well.....When me and my ex were still togher me and the guy started to see each other. Basically i was still in love with him...and didn't know if i wanted to leave him. SOOOO....Yeah i cheated on him with his friend for about two weeks. Then i finally dumped him. When me and the ex started talking again...i had told him that i had been seeing someone. Obviously i didnt' tell him that it was his frined. I just said a guy. I know he'd be MAD if he found out. He'd start to piece things together...and know that his friend liked me, that his friend told me about his infidelity, etc, etc, etc. Yep I got tested and happy to say I'm clean!

Well.....When me and my ex were still togher me and the guy started to see each other. Basically i was still in love with him...and didn't know if i wanted to leave him. SOOOO....Yeah i cheated on him with his friend for about two weeks. Then i finally dumped him. When me and the ex started talking again...i had told him that i had been seeing someone. Obviously i didnt' tell him that it was his frined. I just said a guy. I know he'd be MAD if he found out. He'd start to piece things together...and know that his friend liked me, that his friend told me about his infidelity, etc, etc, etc. Yep I got tested and happy to say I'm clean!

Okay so HERE'S the story. A couple of months ago me and my boyfriend started having problems. Basically I thought he was cheating on me. And it ended up being true. The person who finally told me the truth was one of his friends. Anyhow...his friend the one that told me, liked me. Yep. He basically said that he didn't think it was fair what he was doing to me etc. And to be honest i had always thought that the friend...was a cool guy. Anyhow I dumped my boyfriend and me and his friend starting to see each other. My ex had NO IDEA. In the two months me and the friend were together...he and my ex pretty much strayed away. They didn't hang out as much. So after a while me and the friend pretty much just parted ways. We didn't really have anything WOW. Noww....Me and my ex (YES the one who cheated) are trying to work things out. Things are going great. I Never stopped loving him...but i just had to leave. Anyhow he's sorry about everything...and yeah sooo BASICALLY I'm nervous that the Crap is going to come out that i was with his friend. His friend had told me that WE Would never tell him. He felt bad about the whole thing....he didn't want to loose his friendship. Etc. He said that not even if we didn't work out or anything would i be able to tell him. Believe me it was hard not to mush it in his face, when i was still upset about him cheating on me. I'm not sure if the friend will tell my ex. I know that other than him and another friend...knew about us. I don't think i can tell my ex, what happened. He'd never want to get back together. What do all think i should do. Part of me wants to call the friend and tell him that me and so-and so are getting back together...and see if he says anyhing. But they are not really friends anymore...so i don't know if i should worry. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH please everyone give me advice.