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great, thanks alot for the input let the healing and NC begin wish me luck!

Some insight over this would be great, What does it mean when someone breaks up with you and tells you that, "we're not on the same level" ? and being left with "i don't know" answers. Thanks

would NC be the best way to go? i get the urges to call her everyday but i try to hold back

time and space is all I can do, but I can't stop thinking about her...

I broke up with my ex a month and a half ago. I was pretty devastated, losgin my dog and grandpa at the time as well. What happened was, I've been going out with this girl for about 6 months, everything was great with her, no fights no arguments until beginning of march. In total we had about 3 little arguments/fights, after the first 2 arguments happened she asked for a "break." I said no, well cause i don't take breaks too well, i think that they could be the end of our relationship. 3rd argument came around she asked for another one after we argued abit. I got caught up in the moment and said something i shouldn't have, "do you think maybe we should break up?" She hung up on me tried calling back, no answer, went to her house, no answer. Did everything i could to apologize for what i said. I know it was a dumb move, but like i said i got caught up in the moment. I've gotten several emails from her after that incident telling me to move on and best wishes. I've realized what I've done wrong and changed for the best. I realized she needed space and have given her that. I've matured alot from the whole incident and changed the way I look upon things. I met her last week for the first time in a month, had dinner and walked around. After we were done everything drove her back home. I know I should've kept my mouth shut and ended the night with a good bye and take care, but I sked her, have you ever thought about us getting back together? all i got was a long pause and I don't know. I know I set myself up for that one. please give me some advice...