I I split up with my boyfriend over 2 years ago but we have carried on living together. I also live with another male friend who was originally his flat mate when I moved in with him. About 3 months ago I started to have feelings for our flat mate and him for me but I have been unable to tell my ex, as I don't want to hurt his feelings. My ex boyfriend has found someone new and I feel so jealous and upset, I keep comparing it to our relationship that we had and its driving me made! He keep talking about her and showing me pictures etc and I am just not handling it well at all. We both know when we decided to carry on living together that we would have to deal with each other meeting people but why do I feel so jealous and hurt. I don't want to move out because me and my flat mate want to have a relationship but at the same time it hurts to see my ex with some else. I know that if I weren't living in the same house I wouldn't know what his was up to who he was seeing etc but I am and I just don't know what to do. Why do I feel like this, I have met someone and I am happy, why do I feel so depressed? This is also starting to effect how i am with the new person. I could really do with your thoughts and advice.[/b]
