ska13

to me, the whole "gazing' thing isnt really all worth that much in the workplace as it seems. At my job there is this girl that, to me, seems to 'gaze' at me often, ill be working in my area and notice her looking over. perhaps my case is different but it seems that its just out of her boredom. dont get me wrong we get along well, joking around and such but she has a bf and though i would like it to be more it seems that some of the 'gazing' is just to pass time rather then illistrate something more. just my input

I hang out with this girl just about every week. Ive known her for quite a few years now but only recently started hanging out with her. The place is always the same that we hang out at, a local club. When i first started going there with her I wasnt atracted to her, it was more something new to do with my week. Since the first night, ive gone there with her everytime she has gone. The more I hang out with her the more I am atracted to her. My question is, if I were to ask her 'out' and it was not in her best interest would the effect of the question be to great and burden the friendship. I love hanging out with her, and if she does not feel the same towards me I dont want to stop us from hagning out. Its kind of up in the air to me, because i like just hanging out with her I dont want to stop that and thus I have not moven forward with what i have been feeling. Also, its always a group of 3 of us (most of the time) the third is a girl I have known for a while but is the girl Im attracted to's best friend. Would it be a good idea to ask her about the situation, ie. ask if the girl likes me, or not a good call. Thank you. Joe