I was told by two different people that this girl "fancied the pants off me", one was her friend and the other was another friend's brother. I did like this girl and started to really think about asking her out. The only problem is, i hardly ever see her as she goes to a completely different school and have little chance of seeing her, although i do know both her brothers, one older and one younger than me which made the situation a bit awkward.
Anyway, i asked her friend if she was being serious a week or two later but she said "no" as she "just wanted to annoy her", so i just moved on although i still had feelings for her.
But it turned out that this girl didn't want me to know she fancied me back then, and now wanted a date (arranged through her friend i know, obviously because we dont see each other).
I was over the moon but had to change the date from the Friday (which she wanted) to the Saturday as i really was busy and couldn't get out of it.
Her friends were meant to go on the date with us (for moral support or something for her, i don't actually know although her friend did say it was to stop the awkward silences), but they didnt come for various reasons and she was 30 minutes late herself.
Anyway, the date went ok in my eyes, i was nice, listened to her, paid for everything, held hands with her, didn't force a kiss on her or anything.
But anytime i asked if she wanted something to eat at the cinema, or after it she just said "no", even though it was over dinner time we were there. Not the best place obviously the cinema, cause you can't talk during it.
Anyway, at the end of the date, i asked her if she wanted to see me again and she said:
"I'm working on Saturday and going to a party on Sunday"
"What about Friday?" i asked
"I don't know"
So i took the hint and said goodbye dropping her off at her friends house; which was where she wanted. If she had said yes i would have got her phone number and given her a kiss at this point, but obviously that didnt happen, so i had no way of contacting her except through her friend.
She apparently said the date was "fine" to this friend and hasnt spoken to the other firend since the date so i don't know what's going on with her and if she was trying to reject me (even though i didnt do anything wrong in my eyes).
The friend (who hasnt seen her since) that set up the date says she thinks she still likes me and maybe just wants to concentrate on exams, and her other friend's brother told me that her parents are strict and that was why i had to drop her off at her friends house, so they didn't find out she was on a date.
So basically i don't know if her responce has something to do with this or if she actually doesnt want to see me again. She probably knows alot more about me that i do of her, and maybe didn't see the 'funny' me she was expecting cause i felt that if i tried to be funny i would just look like a show off and she would think i was full of myself.
The friend that set up the date should probably see her this week, so should i give this friend my number to give to her or would that just seem pathetic as she has dropped a big hint that doesnt want to see me again?
It's really been eating away at my mind because it was about 4 weeks ago and i really would do almost anything to be with this girl (from the date and what i know her she is exactly what i'm looking for in a girl), so i need your advice.
P.S, sorry for the book^, but i did say it was complicated
