I'm a 22 year old virgin female. There's a guy I'm interested in who is also interested in me, in a "hookup now, relationship later" kind of way. Glorified friends with benefits. We will only see each other for another month, because he will be graduating and moving away. It's likely I'll never seen him again after that. I'm not really interested in a relationship, but I think he's attractive and trustworthy.
Part of me thinks its a bit of shame to go this long and give my virginity to someone I'm not in love with, but mostly I just want to have sex, know what its really like, and not feel held back (and horny.)
What would you do in a situation like this?
Also, I've heard people say once you start having sex, you can't stop. But lots of people go long periods of time without it, right? I don't want to start and then be craving it all the time! Is it really that hard to stop?
Thanks everyone for reading.
