Hi. i am a 36 year old happily married woman, very beautiful, educated, intelligent. 3 years ago while chatting online i met a married men whose from my same background. he sounded a mature man so we started talking and it became a daily thing, next we started talking on the phone. we became so atached having cyber sex, talking about everythng, fighting, laughing, sharing. i sent him pictures of mine and i kept on doing while being careful my husband doenst notice anything. i was really honest, pleasant, nice, sweet, very loving, spoiling him. so he sent me picture of him. a while after and thru lots of ups and downs he decided tobreak up with me but he would never stop taling to me on a daily basis, non-stop, then he decided t go away with his family for a month and a half, and he said he will keep in touch. well he didnt and i started feeling better because i felt i was the one who was always giving to him and he was so controlling, however he already confessed of his love to me. when he came back from his vacation he admitted that the picture that he sent me wasnt his and that he lied about his age and that he would like to see me. i said ok and i was looking forward to see him. i realised later that he changed his mind and he never sent me a real picture of him. we are still talking he sees me on my web cam, we have sex on the phone, he knows he can get hold of me anytime he wants to but i cant. he never ever sent me a gift, he gets so moody he knows i am very vulnerable because he have much more control over the relationship than i do.... sometimes i wish i never see him again but as soon as he calls me i gave in. i am so addicted to him, we r not planning on seeing each other he lies about 40 miles away . i am very much into him emotionally, but when i get mad about something he seems like he doesnt care.... i am not looking to run my marriage , however i like this guy and i like whats going on, but it seems he doesnt put the effort that i put. he knows my numbers, so much about me and i trsut him, he never hurt me ever, but hes never willing to do anything for me. again i dont want much more than what im getting from him, i want him to realize that he have been taking me for granted, and i want him to realize what wil he loose if i disappear and i never answer his calls. lately he have been distant and indifferent and i told him esterday that i dont have anything to loose if i quit talking to him because i am the one wh si always giving more than he is. his answer was thats fine. i know he wil try to call me today. what should i do. i have been the best and i have put up with a lot for him and i made him a priority. i dont want to loose him i want him to realize what he got and what can he loose if he doesnt change his attitude with me .. please reply, ill nswer any questions and il apprecaite any feedback. thank you.
by the way its hard not to pick up the phone and talk to him, i feel so weak and he knows that. but is it worth trying and what do u think he will react like.