A little bit about myself before I launch into this whole thing. I'm a freshman at a university in Boston. I'm gay, secure with my sexuality and out to anybody who cares to ask. I live in dorms, in a suite that has a common room attached to two double bedrooms and a bathroom. I have 3 roommates, one who sleeps in the same room as I do. This is where it starts (and I'm sorry if it's a bit long).
My roommate and I have become best friends here. He's bisexual (more into guys though) and is currently "seeing" somebody. Their relationship is brand new and, in my opinion, built on sex more than anything. I started to get a crush on him early on this year, but I figured that that might happened seeing as how we both like guys and wasn't too worried about it. I thought that it would go away if it ever happened. Instead what happened is that we became better friends and I saw myself with him more and more.
He's told me that he thinks I'm attractive and he knows I think he is. We're closer now than I've ever been to anybody. We live together. We eat together. We are comfortable together. We complete eachother's sentences. As all of this developed, I started to like him more and more. I may even say that I'm falling in love with him (as much as the idea scares me). I've had crushes in the past; I've had really serious crushes. But this is different and more than that. I don't want to just have sex with him or be his boyfriend. I want to spend all my time with him. I want to share my life with him.
Now, I know that I'm only 18 (19 soon) and that these are serious things to say and serious feelings to have. I know that I may be naive to think that this is love, but all I can go on is what I feel and I know I've never felt like this before.
Should I let him know how I feel? We will almost certainly be roommates for the next 3 years of college. I don't want it to be awkward between us, but I'm going crazy with these feelings. I'm not scared of losing him, because I think he'd be there for me no matter what, but I live with him and it would be awkward if things didn't work out. I'm stuck and he's sleeping soundly in the bed next to me right now. Any advice?
-s27