Hello.....Im 27 years old. I have been with my girlfirend for the last 3 years now. She is a GREAT person.....has done so much for me. She has also never judged me. I LOVE HER.....SHE IS MY BEST FRIEND...BUT......I think i want to break up. I believe that we are not on the same level sexually and am completely bored in that department of our relationship. I am a little wild and adventurous......and she is totally not. I dont know what to do........i feel i know what i have to do...but dont know how to go about it. I know she has been talking to her friends about marriage(seriously). I dont want to hurt her feelings ....i really dont. I just dont think i can go on my entire life with a great "friend". Well thats what i will have if i am not sexually satisfied at all...right? Not that sex is everything...but i am feeling as if there is no romantic chemistry at all.....no flirting...no hot dates....no sexy dressing....ya know?
I feel like a child writing this....but just dont know what to do. She has changed my life for the better......I have experienced, seen things and met people that have enriched my life through her....but i dont feel the romance aka sexual chemistry aka SPARK> Someone please help me in providing mature intellectual guidance. Thanks
