Kris261

Thanx for the advice prosper but i think u may have read it wrong. I actually said "i was no longer getting butterflys and wishing to spend all my time with her. " Sorry if it wasnt clear. I meant to say i didnt want to spend all my time with her and that i didnt get butterflys in my stomach any more. I know that she is inlove with me, and that i probably wont get any who can love me more than she can.. but part of me doesnt know whether that is enough. Surely if i was inlove with her then i would know for sure, 110% !? Although i miss her very much and got jealous when i heard about the kiss i feel that it may not be enough. Do i search for my true love or do i already have her?

I know she wants to get back with me, but i dont know if its for the best! i dont know whether we're going round in circles! I dont know how i feel or what to do! PLEASE HELP ME... NEVER BEEN THROUGH THIS BEFORE

Thankyou for the advice. I know the kiss didnt mean anything it just really hurts me! The relationship was always passionate and we were extremely sexually active however part of me feels like i was not attracted to her anymore. I dont know how to explain this! Do looks matter when you know she will love u till the day u die?

I recently broke up with my girlfriend of just over 1 year. I ended the relationship because i wasnt sure i was inlove with her. I love her very much, and care for her more than anyone else but i was no longer getting butterflys and wishing to spend all my time with her. Since splitting up several weeks ago all i do is think of her. I know she loved me very much and cried for a whole week, and i was considering getting back with her. I dont think about other girls or have the desire to go with other girls, i just wasnt sure she was "the one"! She called me up and told me that she had kissed another guy shortly after we broke up and that she hated it and felt awful and it was just because she was drunk! I know that we were not together but it hurts so much and i thought it would take her a lot longer to get over me as i split up with her and it is taking me ages! Can i possibly get back with her after she has been with some1 else? Will the relationship work anyway when it wasnt before? Should i settle because i love her so much? Do i need to see what its like with another girl? Does she love me as much as she thinks she does if she can kiss other guys when drunK!?? Really Need help!!!!!!!!! Thanx, Kris [/b]