I am 28 and my boyfriend is 30....we have been together for a lil over a year and have lived together for almost a year....we have sex once a month if im lucky......we used to have sex allll the time....then he just quit....when we try now, we are half way through and he is tired and doesn't want to go any further.....he would rather me get on top have an orgasm, then give him oral.....when i bring it up...he says he doesnt know why...and ive suggested a doctor...but he says, he's gotten physicals and they say nothing.....I try to approach this delicately...but now im just thinking he's lazy.....is it wrong to get upset or be demanding......its been over a month and a half since we last had sex....and it isnt even exciting.....im so miserable......and fustrated...please help
thank you
