I need good advice from anyone out there willing to help. My girlfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. We were living together for a year and she asked me to move out so I did. After I moved out we saw each other a few times here and there and it would always be an emotional encounter. We agreed on not to talk or see each for a couple of weeks and we did. She has initiated all of the contact while I have been trying to move on. In October she text messaged me on my phone talking to me and wanting to see how I was doing and wanted to see me. One night she asked me to come over and we watched tv and then she began to cry and asking me what I think we should do. I told her that we are miserable without each other and I believe we should give the relationship another try. She tells me she is confused and doesn't know what she wants or if she feels the same way. A few weeks ago she instant messaged me on the computer and we went to the park to roller blade and had lunch that day. We went out for dinner that night and went back to her place and made love. I didn't hear from her for a couple of days until Thanksgiving Eve. We talked on the computer and she told me that she doesn't know what she wants and is confused. I told her that was fine, I'm moving on and wished her a Happy Thanksgiving. That night she sent me four test messages saying she misses having thanksgiving dinner with my family last year and to call her back. She was drunk with a few friends in downtown and we spoke briefly. That night when I got home I fell asleep and she called me several times on my cell phone and at home. It wasn't until 4:30 that morning that I called her back when I woke up. She asked me if I could pick her up from her house and I did. She spent the night with me and we made love the following morning at my place when we woke up and at her place. She then invited me to have thanksgiving dinner with her family that day. I agreed to that. We hung out that weekend a lot. I didn't hear from her for a couple of days until I received an email from her. She said she is confused and does not want to send me mixed signals and that she believes it's best if we move on and that I accept it. She then wished me luck on my exams and that's it. She has told me several times that she was moving on and letting go. Then she starts to call me or instant message me telling me how much she misses me. What does it mean when she tells me she is confused? Is she doing all of this because she is just lonely and doesn't have anyone in her life? Does she still have feelings for me and think about me? I haven't spoke to her since thanksgiving weekend and did not reply to her email. Is this completely over and should I move on? Will she call me during the holidays? And also, her mom still calls me once a week to talk and see how I am doing. How should I handle this? I love her but she tells me she is confused and doesn't know how she feels. Should I wait around or move on? This has been killing me for the last couple of months. I need answers please.
