LadyD

I am a straight female ... OK, maybe bisexual as I have had sexual relationships with several females from as young an age as 12 to as recently as a few weeks ago. But anyway, I went out with a male gay friend of mine - 100% gay - and we made out ... at my request. He didn't mind, the kissing didn't bother him either way and he enjoyed a little something I did on his neck ... but the point is I still want to make out with him! I wanted to stay over at his place so I could make out loads more! We're going out again today and I am trying to promise myself I won't try to snog him again tonite (but he's sooo beautiful!). Anyway, I think for me, it's simply a case of my darling friend being a safe way for me to get sexual release. I have relationship issues so as much as I want to be with someone, I feel less scared with people who pose absolutely no threat to me. Inevitably, people who I couldn't possibly get into a real relationship with - like my baby. I think that may be why your friend keeps trying to make out with you when he's drunk. Not because he may be straight, but because he really cares about you and feels safe with you. And I understand you have a boyfriend and so cannot really oblige him at the present time, but please ... if ever you break up with you boyfriend and the situation arises again GIVE HIM ALL THE AFFECTION HE NEEDS ... as a good friend of course! (And do bear in mind that I say this with vested interest!).