depressed247

This was her first time doing this type of thing. The reason it took her so long to leave him was because it was her first love and she was "torn between both of us". She was very flirtaceous with other men in the beginning but she changed that for me, also she is very naive which worries me as well. I know it's probally me but what if it's not. I'm only dating a new girl because I feel I too should be waying my options out. I'd hate to lose a good girl but is it true "once a cheater, always a cheater?" Is it my insecurities that are driving me mad? Thanks for all the feedback in advanced.

Greetings all, I'm terribly confused about staying within a relationship which started off as an office affair. To make a long story short, I met my current girlfriend at work. To make matters worse, both she and I were involved in commited relationships. I'm a terrible person, I know, but I left my girlfriend for her a couple of months later. The problem was that she didn't leave him till around a year later. I dealt with it, became insecure and now that I have her, I totally don't trust her. She has left the company to work at a diferent place. She has done certain things to me to not trust her but am I blinded by love or am I too paranoid? On top of that, I felt that with all the things she put me through I deserve better. Currently I took a break and now seeing another girl who is great and gives me every reason to trust her. I still love her and don't know wheteher I should stay and take the gamble or leave to be by myself or with another girl. I know I'm a lousy person but I just want to be happy with the right one. thanks