Diemension

I agree with you...except for when you say: "se probably does". I seriously think she probably doesn´t. I´m very shy, but i don't think she is. But we do lots of stuff together...almost everyday. She invited me to go on a sort of 3 day vacation with her..but also with other friends of ours..unfortunately i won´t be able to go. Last weekend we went out with other two friends (a girl and a boy) and slept in the same house...in the afternoon we´ve been watching a movie in the couch and i touched her hair..her hands...but at the café i noticed she didn´t like it. We also talked about a train trip around portugal..again with other 4 friends...so you see, we do stuff together.

Yeah..I understand that. The problem is that we already have a lot of physical contact..but i think she only wants us to be friends. First I don´t think telling her would be a good idea as it could spoil our relatioship...second, even if i thought it´d be a good idea, I wouldn´t have the courage to tell her about my feelings. What should I do? Should i give her signals, or should i wait for her to like me more than friends?

What if you think you are In Love with a person you love? Like...I think I love everything about a friend of mine...and i´d like us to give it a try...but is it enough to have an In Love relationship?

I´m a 21 year old guy who knows a girl for about 16 years. I´ve been far from her for about the last 4 years because we went to different universities, but we still live nearby. In the last 8 months we´ve been going out together in a small group of 6 people...only friends, nothing more. She finished with her boyfriend 3 moths ago (i had even gone out with them sometimes..i actually got along very well with him) and i´ve been her shoulder to cry on. Now, we are always together...we go out together and often sleep in a the same place when we go out (at a female friend of ours'). I´ve never felt anything for her except for friendship...until now. And found out after a lot of years how adorable she is, and how I would like to make her happy...with her. I think this is very weird...how i know her for that long and never felt anything that special for her. But i don´t know if she wants us to be more than friends...i don´t know if she ever even considered it (like i had never until now). Whenever I am with her..and when i hug her..e feel like kissing her and being with her forever. The thing I know is that I love her for the person she is, but I´m afraid of telling her how I feel; not because of the possibility of being rejected (as boyfriend) but because i think she never thought of me like her boyfriend..and would be very surprised. What do you think about it? (Sorry for my poor english)