HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN TO DIVORCE. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 11 YEARS, WITH 2 GREAT CHILDREN. MY HUSBAND IS A KIND MAN, GOOD FATHER AND DOES EVERYTHING AROUND THE HOUSE. HE IS NOT VERY GOOD AT SHOWING HIS EMOTIONS BY TALKING ROMANTICALLY TO ME, BECAUSE OF THIS I FEEL WE ARE NOT ON THE SAME WAVE LENGTH. WE KEEP ARGUING A LOT ABOUT THIS AND WE BOTH THOUGHT HE SHOULD STAY AT HIS PARENTS FOR A WEEK. IN THAT WEEK I THOUGHT HE WOULD RING AND SAY I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS - I LOVE YOU TOO MUCH, OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT, BUT HE JUST RANG AND KEPT SAYING DO I WANT HIM BACK. WE WENT TO A COUNSELLER AND SHE SAID I THINK YOUR WIFE WANTS TO HEAR HOW MUCH YOU CARE FOR HER AND WOULD'NT WANT TO LIVE WITHOUT HER. BUT HE DID'NT LIKE BEING PUT ON THE SPOT AND SAID CAUSE I CAN LIVE WITHOUT HER, IVE BEEN IN THE NAVY. HE DOES COME IN EVERY NIGHT AND GIVE ME A KISS AND MAKE TEA ETC, BUT THIS DOES'NT SEEM ENOUGH. I HAVE RECENTLY CHANGED JOBS AND I AM LONELY AT WORK AND DON'T FEEL LIKE I CAN COPE WITH A DIVORCE ON MY OWN WITH 2 CHILDREN. I DON'T KNOW ANYMORE IF I LOVE OR LIKE HIM. I FEEL LIKE I AM GOING MAD THINKING ABOUT THIS. I ASKED HIM WHAT HE WANTS HE SAYS HE WANTS TO STAY HERE WITH ME AND THE KIDS. IT FEELS LIKE I HAVE TO PROMPT HIM TO SAY THINGS OTHERWISE HE JUST COMES IN ALL THE TIME AND WATCHES TV. AM I WRONG IN ASKING FOR HIM TO WANT TO SIT AND TALK TO ME. PLEASE HELP, WHAT SHOULD I DO.
