It's like that: I took the first move and asked him out, twice. We had a nice time together and I can feel that he has interests in me because he talks a lot and always say next time I'll show you this and that. It seems that we'll have the next date. However, when I ask him through the e-mail for going out, he replied that he's very busy these days. I feel very upset. Am I acting too fast or haven't shown enough passion during the previous date? It seems that I'm always in the leading role, I dont' like that, it's very tired.
We work in the same company but he works flexitime, so we seldom meet. Do you think if I'm wise to ask him out the third time? Is it too pushy and forceful? In fact, I want to bump into his office and ask him out to show my sincerity, but I'm fraid he may feel too scary. Do I need to tell him that I always think of him, is it too fast? I wish that we can start a normal relationship as lovers. To guess is to torture oneself.
