Two months ago I met this woman online. We hit it off right away.She makes me laugh, we can have real conversations, she's very intelligent. In short, I am attracted to her. However, when we met, I found that she is on the heavy side. I know it may seem to some that this is offensive, but I am just not attracted to obesity. Sorry but I am not. But I really like this woman. I just cant get past her being obese. Its really holding up the relationship from going any further.
Most of her weight she put on in the last few years, after a horrible relationship ended. She is very self conscious of her weight.
I am an active healthy person. Eat right, exercise regularly etc. I would be more than willing to help her get in shape. But I even feel bad about thinking of changing her.
Do I talk to her about this, do I just call things off now before feelings get deeper. HELP!!!! What do I do?
