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MissCanuck

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  1. MissCanuck's post in Should i surprise him? was marked as the answer   
    Then you should go ahead and block him, and delete his number and any other contact information. 
    He's told you in no uncertain terms that you two are never going to be an item so you can block him with the knowledge that you are not going to miss out on any opportunities with him. 
  2. MissCanuck's post in People who use others was marked as the answer   
    Ask yourself if there is really a friendship outside the favours you do. 
    If there isn't, say no when they ask you for favours. It's that simple. 
  3. MissCanuck's post in Confusing end of a situationship was marked as the answer   
    This reads like you probably overlook too many red flags in the name of being empathetic. Be very careful not to accommodate such people to the detriment of your own needs and desires. 
    Run from guys like this. It's never a good sign. It doesn't matter if it's a psychological issue or an excuse because they're just not that into - they are to be avoided. 
    Same goes for this. He warned you pretty clearly that he's not boyfriend material. This is not your cue to be more patient, but rather you need to keep moving and find someone who either doesn't have "attachment issues" or has resolved them and is capable of a healthy relationship. 
    No, because that wouldn't have changed anything. He knew from the beginning that he wasn't into this the same way you were. Patience can't fix that. 
    I am sorry you're hurting. This is a tough lesson to learn. But when someone is telling you from the get-go that they have issues and are not good at relationships, you need to believe them and exit stage left. 
  4. MissCanuck's post in How do I tell my ex that I don’t want to be with her in the future, and how do I tell my current gf about this without making her think I still had fe was marked as the answer   
    You don't need to explain anything to your ex or have any further contact with her. 
    Her plan is borne out of a teenage fantasy. That's all it is. She won't stick to it. She is very young and hasn't grown enough to realize it's not realistic, but she will when she meets the next boy she wants to date. Then the plan will be forgotten. You don't owe her any sort of text, and you certainly don't owe her a plan to get together after high school. 
    If she happens to get in touch with you, be respectful but firm that you are dating someone else and cannot remain in contact or get back together someday. Don't argue your point. State it, and be done. Then you will need to cut communication with her. 
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