My gf and I have been living together for 2 1/2 years, both of us have been married before, my marriage ended in disaster, and she broke up due to 'health' problems on her husband's part to put it mildly.
Her ex-husband still calls every now and again which doesn't bother me too much to be honest but as she recently mentioned marriage, I informed her I will not be committing myself before all contacts cease. I know I might be selfish, but when my ex-wife used to call my gf used to sulk so much that I made it clear that I did not want any form of contact with her. This is what I wanted anyway but I noticed my gf getting very upset when I talked to my ex.
She says she loves her ex-husband in a different way etc. like the love a mother shows to her child and I can live with that. It's the marriage part that scares me, I have been through it once already and don't want to be taken for a ride again. Especially since he asks if she's still with me during the conversation and she says that they had the perfect marriage.
My gf is very committed to our relationship, so I really do not suspect foul play, but she gets very emotional sometimes and don't like the idea of her having her ex-husband talking to her about our personal life.
Am I right or am I just being a wuss?
