The relationship lasted 4.5 years. During much of this, we argued and were unhappy. However, there was enouhg respect to keep us going. I actually ended it 5 months ago and it was a relief. Since then I have not seen my ex girlfriend but have kept in touch via phone and mainly texts of late. I have been happier out of the relationship but have still wondered if it could work out next time round and actually thought about writing a detailed letter to try and patch things up. Much of the problems were due to my fault btw.
Anyway, yesterday I received a text stating my ex had been seeing someone for 2 months and they were going away for a year from this christmas. I was destrought and very strong feelings came back immediately. I have then realised she is the most important thing in the world to me. Am I imagining this? We have spoke on the phone for 2h but I can not change her mind when asking her to come back. What is happening?
