mataney

move on. next please. she's too nice to say no. if she calls you don't just say yes, say no but you can meet her another day specified. good luck

she needs to know that you can't be treated this way. take some time off. would you want her to do this again in the future? i didn't think so. get mad. have some standards. you're not her chump. i know you love her so give it some time. looks like she needs to realize what she's doing. good luck

he's contacting you because this is his way of not feeling like a jerk to you. forget it. you don't need this. he sees you this way, all sad and who'd want to be with someone like that. force a smile here and there. you're just making him feel good because he knows that he has an affect on women. guaranteed, once you stop contact, he'll call more cuz he misses the attention.

you could do the "while you're talking and walking move." as all of you guys are walking, as you're talking to her, you can simply ask "are you cold" (hopefully it's a little brisk, if no ask something else) then put your arm around her. you'll get a reaction. from there you'll know whether or not to go for the hand. just try to be more touchy feely with her. good luck

just talk to the guy. act like you're interested in what he's saying. ask him about sports or music or hobbies. then slip in the "you should show me how some time" number and see where it goes. if that's too hard then just talk to him constantly more and more. good luck

what are you doing with someone you're scared of? if it's on your mind you can just tell him, "hey, i just talked to so and so and they said you went to anger mgmt. is that true?"

he can either get mad. then you say "see ya, i don't need this"

or sad. you say "hey, it's all good. i don't think you have a problem"

or nothing. you say "it's all good. i don't think you have a problem"

i'm sure if something was on his mind you'd want him to ask. you don't want this to grow into something it's not. good luck

think about what she's thinking. she's thinking geez, this guy obviously knows now that i like him. why isn't he doing something about it?

just ask her out already. yeah, you may not be ready but you gotta get out there to know if you are or not. good luck

i say you step it up a notch. try to talk more. get to know her more. it'll bring her down from you pedestal when you realize she has flaws. just be confident. ask her to hang out or something. you just seem stuck. do something. if you get shot down, then forget about her. next please. good luck

agree with above. but since you have class with her, just start chatting it up with her after class. make it a routine to walk with her after class. then once things are cool, get her info.

make a move already. if you can't, then just be more physical. see how she reacts. grab her hands, squeeze her shoulders, put your arm around her. if you can't do that, then just talk to her with confidence. you can tell if she's into you or not. good luck.

agree with beec. do something very nice for him.

just be friendly towards him. get to know him. take it slow. no need to have a bf that you don't really know. good luck.

dood. if this co-worker or friend is close, then just tell them to hook you up. why be so polite about it? they're your friend. don't get me wrong, but you sound like a very quiet person. if not, i apologize. but there's nothing wrong with telling a close friend that you want them to hook you up. doo it. good luck.

i don't see a problem with mixing...unless you think about what would happen if things went sour half way through the house building process.

if anything, take it slow. and tell him this. this way he will build it much faster. hahah. good luck

don't worry, it's not overs. just be happy with yourself and he'll wanna be around that. good luck

just don't act lame. girls want a guy with confidence. she needs to know that you're the catch. good luck.

don't think so seriously either. you're gonna lose your mind.

ksk is right about how to handle this. just ask her to hang out. from what i see, you have her on this pedestal. you need to get her off that. best way to do that is to mentally tell yourself that you already have a gf. remember how that felt? so much confidence and yet you were able to be yourself. unless.....you haven't had a gf before.

i agree with bethany but don't need to tell her how you feel. that'll make you look weak. she needs to know what she's missing in order to create a need. just be strong. doesn't sound like there's too much history behind it so it's not a big loss. good luck

seriously, you need to cut all ties with this guy. you're basically letting him get away with whatever he wants. just keep asking yourself, why would you ever want to be with someone that treats you like this.

best thing to do is make yourself better. make yourself happier. you have to realize that you aren't the problem and that it's his loss. good luck.

magic words. tell him you want to "take it slow". still chasing but yet he knows that it might lead up to something. good luck.

you need to talk to him. find a time. tie him down or something. relationships, esp. marriages are about communication. there's none going on here.

if he won't sit down and talk with you (i say talk, meaning both of you guys talking it out, not you nagging) then just do less things around the house. he needs to feel the impact of how much you do and that if he wants it kept up as it was, then he's gonna have to give back to you.

don't wanna come up harsh, but it could be that you're pregnant and emotional right now. but i understand that he does need to fulfill some of you needs as well. so have a talk or start boycotting the chores. good luck

if he has feelings for you at all, he'll come back. just give him some space. call him in a few days and apologize. no excuses. if he doesn't take it then consider it over.

it means you just like her as a friend.

i think the fact that you are not experienced may have some effect on your decisions. you're just not used to it, so you might not know what to do. you could be just very nervous about the whole issue so hence the avoidance.

my advice...tell this woman that you don't know what you're doing and let her take control. good luck

if it bothers you so much. i don't see why you can't give her a call. once you find out, you can continue to ignore her. remember, she cheated on you and treated you like crap.

you obviously are still concerned about her well being but to make things at ease with yourself, go ahead and talk to her. on the phone or in the hallway. but don't get sucked in. good luck

stop trying. he's just used to how things are. you don't know what you had until it's gone. see what happens. if he doesn't realize you are important then it's time to move on. good luck.