alright this is a very complicated situation, but i need ure advice cuz im confused myself.first let me give u the background on the situation.
i have been with my gf for almost 5 years. we've had a lot of drama, lots of good times, and a couple of very short break ups, but we has both done things with other people during these break ups. when she went to job corps a couple years ago, there was this guy named bobby. she had some kind of crush on him, but didnt cheat on me while we were together and i dont have even evidence to believe that.but whenever we broke up, even for a couple days(or even a day sometimes), she would often hook up w/ this guy, who acted really corny and wanted to be with her, but she wouldn't because he probably will never go anywhere w/ his life and he had a girl he cheated on.
well a little over a year ago, she got a place in edmonds after we had trouble living together, but we stayed together. she had a roommate, and at the time i was staying w/ my parents, but i would stay the night there most of the time so it was almost like my second place. we had a big fight, over something(dont remember what)and we basically broke up. i went home to my house that night. and a little bit later she came and begged me to come to her place and talk to her.i didn't want to but finally i did.
when we got over to her place, things got worse.we started fighting and i told her to just let me go to sleep. i said "just let me sleep. i can even believe that i came over here." and i went to sleep. in the morning, she took me to work and as we walked through the living room, i saw someone sleeping on the couch, covered up. i asked who it was and she said it was one of her roommates friends.i went to work and after work i went to her house and we made up and things were cool.
last night, me and my gf were talking about sexy stuff we had done with other people, and she started to talk about that night. i found out that while i was sleeping she went and called bobby and picked him up. she brought him back to her apartment and had sex with him in the bathroom, which is connected to the bedroom i was sleeping in.in the morning, the mysterious person under the blanket on the couch was really him.after she dropped me off she came home and had sex with him again, then took him home.
she claims this isnt cheating cuz we were "broke up" and she would never cheat on me when we were together. i would care if we were really broke up, as i have hooked up w/ people the day after we broke up in the past. but can i really trust her? we are ld currently right now, but have been making big plans and i need your advice
