turbolover77

You are like, my savior. Im so confused because my new bf hates the phone and Im so used to talking to my bfs for hours! I feel asthough if he liked me more hed want to talk on the phone, but im not sure thats why im asking these guys input

question to guys: Do you all like the telephone, at all? How often do you talk to your girlfriends and do you ever go a day without talking?

Thanks to everyone who responded back. Well, we had an interesting conversation where I told him how I feel like he isn't that interested because he doesn't call. He told me that its not like that and that since he hasnt had a girlfriend in almost three years that his phone routine is differen't. He's so used to talkin to the guys and not for more than 3 minutes. I shouldn't stress it. I think things will change now that he knows how I feel. In the meantime, relationships are about having fun and letting yourself fall in love. I guess I'm just picking apart faults because I am scared to fall for this one. I just don't want to end up being hurt. But I have faith in this relationship...even though it's early. Thanks again everyone. Your advice definitely opened up my mind and helped out alot.

I should have worded it better. I mean he calls me every night, but not for more than a half hour cause hes tired when he calls and has to wake up early for work. We make plans in advance and when i say he wants me to stay, when we are hanging out..he doesn't like when I leave.

he does make plans in advance, and we aren't always hooking up when we hang out. so uhh yeah.

Okay, so I have been with this boy for a week. I really like him and I hope the best for our new relationship. However, when he calls me..he calls at like late at night and doesn't stay on the phone for long. Does that mean anything? because i feel like i always want to talk to him and if he liked me he would too. BUT we are hanging out alot and hes always wanting me to stay, being very sweet and just treating me right. Can someone help me with this? Do boys even like the phone? He says he hates it.