Felicity25

Sorry for being so erratic with my choices.... I am just really confused at the moment and dont know what I am feeling, I only found out at the beginning of the week.... I know this is a life choice and I think I have to agree with the fact of telling the father as he does have a right to know..... he is a decent guy and I think that maybe I do need his support..... this is all just very confusing.

The hardest part of this decision is aborting.... I am 26 years old and it is not as if I am 17 but as you have both said, I need to be sure that I am making the right choice. There is no way that I would be able to adopt, I would get way too attached carrying the baby for 9 months. I am good friends with the father and see him every weekend and I am worried that if we are out together and I get emotional then I may tell him about it after I have gone through with my decision of aborting and I know that he would be more angry about that. I know that he would support me through this but I just dont want him to think badly of me for this happening... do you know what I mean?

Hi, this week I found out that I am 6 weeks pregnant.... I am not in a serious relationship.... I have been sleeping with the same guy for the past 3 months and it was not planned obviously. The problem is that I broke up with my long term boyfriend 6 months ago and the guy that I have been sleeping with for the past 3 months is my ex-boyfriends best friend. No body knows that we are together.... I think I have made my decision to not have the baby as it would just hurt to many people and I have taken a job in England and am planning to move there in December. But my delemer is do I tell the father of this baby that I am pregnant...??? I am just very confused and upset at the moment and just dont know what to do.