i understand what yall are saying, but to me it seems like it's just not that simple, i know this kind of thing is'nt just going to change overnight or anything, its just that we do everything together, i mean everything. before i met her, i always hung out with my friends, my friends and i always seemed to have a good time, i miss that.
if i try to talk to her about it, she just doesn't seem to understand what i'm trying to say. i feel like she's not respecting my feelings and what i want. she somehow seems to always turn things around and make it seem like i'm being selfish.
maybe this example will explain it: say i wanted to go do something with just my friends, i will tell her and she will say, "can i go too", she never seems to think that maybe i might want it to be just me and my friends, in my book thats kind of inconsiderate
if i could somehow communicate to her in a way that she would just understand without getting defensive or hurt.