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Meet new girls

Take up hobbies

Do things with your life and you will forget her like nothing

To keep her wanting more, simply do what you are doing. Flirt with other girls around her. DO NOT talk about yourself too much, remain mysterious. Put all of your priorities first, and the girl last.

 

okay now this is what i dont get...... yes i want to keep her wanting more but why in the worl would you flirt with other girls around her if you lik HER..and if you like her alot why would she not become you main priority?

Because she will see you are not obsessed over her, that she has competition, and that you have other options available.

Simply reschedule the date then.

Whoa, bad idea with the flowers there. Why would you want to pay 20 bucks for flowers and drive 3 hours there and back for some chick you barely know? Anyway, what was the reason you guys didnt go out? If she cancelled the date, it is probably becuse she lost interest, and you should move on if that is the case.

haha, move on

If you got things to do and people to see, not long at all.

Wow. I had the same exact thing happen to me. But, acted differently. I was so damn pissed, I called her a f****** b***** and simply walked away, cutting her out of my life. When this happened to me, it changed my perspective on girls and dating. And the funny thing is, after I stopped caring, she got a crush on me.

DONT EVEN TALK TO HER. Dont be her doormat. Just simply cut her out of your life, dont call her, dont look at her, nothing. If she gets a crush on you like it happened to me, say you only go out with good looking girls. You cannot go out or even be "friends" with chicks like these man, they are conceited, b*****y attention wh0res who will only use you. Trust me, I speak from personal experience. Simply cut her out and find new girls.

ew, internet chat. Dude for your own good, stop talking to her alot on the net. Trust me. Try spending some time with her rather then on the net. Plus, if you are on the net all the time talking to her she will think you have no life and are desparate over her.

Well, maybe you are focusing too much on the girl? How often do you call her or how often do u guys hang out? If you pay too much attention to her, she will of course get bored with you. Just take care of your own life, make this girl the last of your priorities. When she sees you are moving away from her, she will start getting into you again.

Give it a shot then, see how it goes.

To keep her wanting more, simply do what you are doing. Flirt with other girls around her. DO NOT talk about yourself too much, remain mysterious. Put all of your priorities first, and the girl last.

Ok. This is a tough one. How about you just forget about the girl for a while, and spend some time with your friends when they call you? Take care of your self. Forget about the girl: when she makes plans on a day you are busy, say you are busy and to hold it off for later. According to my book, she is disrespecting you. Sit down with her and talk about it. Ask her why she is not being able to keep her promises. See how she reacts. Also, if she is only happy to go out on days SHE feels comfortable and does not ask for your opinion, I would suggest breaking up and moving on.

As for your life being miserable: Do not rely on girls to make it better, because you will more then likely be very disappointed with the result. Tkae care of yourself. Do things to change.

Best of luck to you.

the guy loves you

Simply human nature: people want what they can't have more.

Its not that they like to be ignored... its just human nature. People want what they dont have the most. If you keep giving her attention, she will get bored of you and eventually stop. Keep her wanting more and you will get her.

Next time you're talking to her, ask her "Hey, wanna go out sometime?"

If she says yes, pick a fun date to go to, like bowling or mini golf.

If she says no, just say "Ooh thats cool".

Be sure to look your best when doing this, be confident, and if she rejects you, make sure you look like it doesent bother you one bit.

Good luck.

Dude, you are only 17. Break up, this relation wasn't ment to be. Find a new girl.

Well dude, if she has lied to you and cheated on you yet she still claims she loves you, she is bsing you, because if you love someone, you would never do those things. In my book, if a girl cheats on someone, she does not love or respect that person, and she will probably do it again.

I have had similar things happen to me, there was this girl I was crazy about for a long time. I finally went out with her, and when she cheated on me, I was really upset. She cheated on me AGAIN after a month. I found out from one of my friends, called up the girl, destroyed her verbally over the phone and hung up. After that, Ive realized that there is no way that I am going to put up with cheating ever again. About a week later, SHE called me and asked me to take her back. I said no.

I strongly advise cutting off this girl, and finding a new one.

my 2 cents of advice

.... hes trying to see if you are interested in him, thus if you are, call him.

most likely accept. Just dont tell her you asked someone out already.

dude wow... that was a very stupid thing to do. Give her the "lets just be friends" line, and really MEAN it. Be as nice to her as possible and be her friend.

You will not ruin the friendship by asking her out. If she says no, simply say that its cool and continue to be friends. Id say go for it.

That is a nice dose of womanese.

I will translate:

"Dear XX, I am not attracted to you anymore, and I do not want to make you feel bad, because you are a nice guy, about the breakup, so I am going to wrire you a long letter restating the same thing over and over, so you won't think I'm a b1tch with hopes of using you as an emotional tampon later."

She dumped you, there is nothing to talk about. I suggest getting over her and finding a new girl.

Its good that you didnt drive. Most times, if your ex and you break up, you should move on, its the best thing to do.

The only way to recover is to go out and meet other girls

Dude before you do anything, remember this phrase: bro's before h0's. No girl is ever worth losing a best friend over. If she told him she wants to be friends, she does not like him and does not want to go out with him. If I were you, I would never risk losing a friend, especially a best friend, over some girl that doesent even like you. Girls come and go, but real friends are hard to come by.