Thank you very much dumpit. I seems like that is what she was doing to me, just sitting there and not saying much of anything when we were alone. I'll take you up on your deal. Usually if a guy likes you he will, I know you don't want to hear seeing him stare at you but that is what some guys do. He probably won't keep staring at you but he will turn away when you look at him. Try to make eye contact with him and smile and say hi. To be honest I can't really tell you any other way but I'm sure other more experienced people can help you even more. Thanks for your input on my situation. I will ask her if she would like to go and hang out just the 2 of us and have dinner or go to a movie.