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I have been having a hard time, i have looked up many posts in this forum some help some jus dont. There is a girl and i really like her, i think she knows as well but she doesnt knw enough of me or maybe yet i dont seem to be the right person for cause i seem very different around her n basically "boring" i knw because i do seem like tht. I spend more time thinking of wht to say when im wid her n i knw tht jus makes it worse because it should jus be natural, i cant help the feeling when im next to her.. my conversations r always boring .. wid other gurls i intend to make em laugh but i guess it is a expected feeling when u really like sum1. Last night my friend n i went out n she came as well my friend got her attention so quick she even went wid him for a ride in his car.. i didnt like wht happened i hadnt even said one thing to her because i didnt knw wht to talk about... I need help on starting a coversation where she enjoys n gets to knw me n i get to make her laugh, n i wanna be comfertable when talkin, not nervous, wht steps should i do to accomplish this?

Well there is this gurl i really like.. we are like good friends and all.. but at times i feel ive said all i can to her.. but at the same time i want to keep talkin to her about sumthin... at times i have nothin to talk about ... mostly when im chattin to her.. she sumtimes goes on sayin why arent u talkin to me... ur boring" me ill talk to u later then..." I want to be able to make her happy everytime i talk to her.. n i want to know different stuff i can converse about.. any1 know wht i can do to improve my conversations wid her. or give me ideas on stuff to talk about.. I really like this person.. n i dont want to loose her..

Hey thanks for your reply. .. Well basically i called her up today, we talked for 2 hours yeah.. wait till ma dad sees the phone bill... n e way basically we got on to different topics.. Her attitude towards me is postive man.. but one topic we got on to is why she never said yes to me when i asked her out months ago. She told me I can NEVER EVER HAVE A CHANCE WID HER... well thats really got me heart broken. I have decided not to be friends with her because i don't want to end up getting hurt. I can't even not have a minute not thinking about her... im like too emotionally attached to her. I wanna forget her completely but its hard.. can sum1 help before i go completely crazy.. ?

Basically its a long story, I got to know this girl, i started of talking to her online a lot, i met her once right when we began to know each other but she was shy and all. I got to know her quite a lot talking to her online i later on called her up and we talked to each other on the phone. The biggest mistake i did was ask her out the secound time we met. She told me she hardly knows me, and i shouldnt ask her out ever. I really like this girl and i like being with her. We are still friends, we've been through arguments but in friendships that usaully happens. A year later im here still liking this girl, Well basically if i were to ask her out again i know she would be angry at me and i don't want her to be angry and not be my friend anymore. I try to stop myself from liking her but its just hard, i can't, i like her too much. I get hurt when she makes out with another guy like last time she made out wid her last ex-boyfriend. Lately my problem is i don't know what to talk to her about? i have a feeling like ive said all i can to her.. I want to start conversations when we meet not jus total silence. I want to go out with her but i dont want to ask her out at this stage. I want her to like me more then a best guy friend, where then i can have a futher relationship. I just need her to like me and that can only happen if i start talking to her more. I don't want to lose touch with her. How do i start conversations with a very good friend that i like so much and would like to go out with?