I am so frustated. I am 25 my boyfriend is 29 and we've been together for 6 years. I have a 7 year old son that is not his. I had him in the relationship before him. He has been married before I keep thinking he's gonna change but still hasn't. He still doesn't know what he wants after 6 years , Ex. marriage, kids etc... We had a fight last night and he was saying how he doesn't want to stay in this area (I do). He doesn't want to be any kind of father figure to my son and marriage ...he doesn't like to hear the word.
Well my problem is we still do alot together ....on weekends and sometimes after work and we are good friends and well as boyfriend and girlfriend. I also trust him more than I trust anyone, including my family. It's just that we have a terrible romantic relationship. He has said I love mabye 5 times in the past 6 years. We never hug kiss or anything else. I want to settle down and he doesn't. What should I do?
Do I stay with him because of the comfort of having someone or do I break up with him. And if I break up him how do I go about it. I tried once before and makes me feel guilty.
Thank you for your help
Felice
