My 2nd husband walked out after 2½ years 1 child and along with my oldest from my 1st marriage. I didn't know exactly where he was living, no phone number to reach him, etc. He didn't tell me that he didn't love me. He told me we could try to work things out. I tried, at one point he even came back after saying that he wanted to reconcile. I even gave up over $3,000 in child support arrearages...because I still loved him. A few weeks later he wanted out and that's when I wised up. I don't believe that he ever loved me...don't care anymore...but I love my babies.
Not exactly the same situation...but I have this firm belief that if you allow people to play with you and controll you they get a kick out of it and see how far they can push you.
Well...he only got to push me for 6 months. Now he's alone...no longer with the thing he left me for (it seems that they can't stand each other any more) and I'm starting over with someone that I've known for years and should have married in the first place.
You have to think about you and your children...and if he's not interested then you have to take the next step. I've heard that abandonment is a nice term for it.
