I'm.okay with answering questions such as 'what are you looking for?', I think these are standard questions. I'm not the biggest fan of online dating and I prefer meeting men in real life but when I do use dating apps, I usually stick to a basic chat until we meet. And then on a first meet/date, I don't like getting too persomal either, especially if I don't know that guy.
It's also a red flag for me if a guy overshares on a first date, I had a few experiences like this and I felt like a therapist!