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  1. Thanks everyone, I've been trying to go more on dates, even with guys I am not crazy about, so I wanted to give him a chance, but he seems to be a little boring even when we text. We live in a big city so there so many things to do, even for free, I'm not into dinner dates, but it's not like we would live in the middle of nowhere and all you could do was go for a walk. Let's hope the next date will be more fun 🙂
  2. I don't think he's afraid of covid, at least he never mentioned it, and he's been traveling too, so I don't think so.
  3. I think it's different to go for a walk after coffee/dinner, and just for a walk. But you're right, I'm not very interested in him, I liked him in the group outing but how he asked me out, or how he wanted to come to my place, made me less interested I guess.
  4. He's okay, but a little boring I guess.
  5. I said no because at the beginning, he wanted to come to my place - during the covid lockdown - I rejected this because I don't like strangers at my place. He would text me every and then, and now he has asked me out again - for a walk.
  6. I met him in a group get together, but we haven't gone out on a date yet.
  7. Hey everyone, there is this man who has asked me out several times, and each time he asked me out for a walk. I don't think it's because of Covid because things got back to normal in my city, and cafes and bars are open again. Now I don't expect a guy to spend a lot of money on dates, but I'd like to see some effort, like he thought about taking me somewhere. Museum and exhibitions are open too (some are for free) so there are plenty of options, but he always suggest a walk instead. I don't find it very appealing to only go for a walk, I'd like to feel at least a little special, and walk
  8. Thank you, that sounds like great advice. I understand she feels upset and I do want to help her, I just need to learn how to better handle my emotions.
  9. I try to reassure her and be there for her, it's just too much sometimes, and I end up worrying so much after these calls.
  10. Hey everyone, maybe some of you went through a similar thing, I’d need some advice here. So I live in a different country than my family, I see them twice a year, it’s okay, we have a good relationship I believe. My parents are still together and doing well, just my mom has been dealing with some health issues lately. It’s not a very serious illness, it can be painful sometimes though, a surgery could fix it but because of covid it has been placed on hold. Now when I talk to my mom on the phone, she sometimes complains about her being sick. I understand she needs to talk to someone,
  11. My mom was is a similar situation, a friend stopped talking to her after 15 years of friendship. She's sometimes still a little upset but learned to accept it.
  12. Hi Sherry, maybe she is upset because she wasn't invited to the wedding? It seems to be she needs some space, maybe she just doesn't feel like talking to you, I'm sorry. Could she be jealous of you for some reason?
  13. I like this, especially about the expectations, thank you 🙂
  14. I think she’s one of those people who just can’t be on their own, she needs company all the time, so she either hangs out with friends or random guys from tinder or bumble, and maybe overschedules. I think I told her I prefer to make plans a little in advance, not sure if she understood. I feel like for her it’s not a big deal to make plans and then not follow through. I tried to accept her as she is but this year she became even more flaky, and it’s just too much. As I mentioned, when we hang out, we have a lot of fun, and I have good memories with her so I don’t want to avoid her comple
  15. I don't mind if my friends cancel at the last minute, or if they sometimes forget to reply to my message, I think we've all been there, but I think it's a little rude to make plans, and then just disappear, only to send a message a few days later that she was busy. And she does this often.
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