Well... we broke up on March 16th, I spent the night with her that night so I last talked to her on March 17th. I went NC from the moment I walked away from her that morning.
Unfortunately... as the thread I started suggests I ran into her at an open mic last night, we just said "hey", and I sat down behind her and that was it. I didn't look at her for the remainder of the night. I PROBABLY should have left as soon as I saw her, but I told her about that place and I wanted to stand my ground, which hopefully shows some confidences/assertiveness. Plus, I'm sure they talked about it after they left, which is another "win."
I thought I was totally screwed when I walked into that room, but she still hasn't removed me or our relationship from facebook (I thought for sure I would be blocked after last night).
I can't help but wonder how things would have gone if she was alone instead of with her friend.
This was an emotional set back for sure, but I personally felt that I handled it well.