Ok not sure if anyone anyone reading this knows my situation, but you can refer back to, What a Mess".(under breakups) Well if so here is my latest and greatest plan, it has been a month now since she has left me, and still wears my engagement ring, we talk every so often, and she still tells me she loves and misses me but she keeps saying that we wont work, (why i dint know). Well in January i am going to get on a plane, get my butt back to AZ for 2 weeks. The day i get back i am having a friend bring her to our favorite bar, and i am going to show up totally unexpectedly,with a few roses, a teddy bear, a big red bow on my head and tell her, "Baby, Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year, so sorry im late, Santa forgot me, I love you." Im hoping for the best but eiter way i need to get my stuff back from her and i will finally be able to sit and talk to her face to face. I am so excited to do this i cant even sleep at night, its sucks but i cant wait, well let me know what you think, if you want to talk about it and have some good info for me IM me on AOL. Well hope to see some of you soon, Bye bye, ~Jim