Day 21 of NC (excluding the time when it was my birthday and he inititaed contact)
Mutual friend just told me that he said that i dont bother initiating contact w him and i don't tell him much about my life now.
uhhh??? i think he was the one who didnt even tell me anything about HIS life and seems so uninterested and cold all our conversations while i try to lighten the mood and DID let him know a bit about my life ... like he knows that recently i've started clubbing. i dont even know what the hell he does with HIS life and i dont think i really care now.
as tempting as it is to start contacting him... i guess i shall continue playing the waiting game... if he really wanted me he would come talk to me i'm done with initiating contact in the past and getting NO REPLIES AT ALL!!!
nonetheless, its kind of a step forward to getting him to meet me... he almost decided to come meet me and my friend today, but in the end he backed off ohwell, wasn't ready for that anyway