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    Olivia Sanders

    When Jealousy Overwhelms Friendship

    It’s a feeling all too familiar to many, but why does it hurt so much when we become jealous in the presence of our friends? Jealousy can be a powerful emotion, turning what once was an easy relationship into something painful and uneasy. Even more perplexing is why it appears spontaneously and how long its effects can linger.

    Jealousy can be a primal instinct, an eagerness to protect something of our own from any potential threat. We may also have traditional expectations as to role our friends should play in our lives and can become possessive when those expectations are not met. No matter the cause, jealousy can trickle into our relationships when we least expect it.

    Most likely, if we experience jealousy toward a friend, it has less to do with that friend and more to do with ourselves. We may be uncertain about our own self worth or feel disconnected from our true emotions. We could have unresolved issues in other areas of life that get transferred onto our friendships. Or maybe it's simply a lack of confidence.

    The first step towards understanding our jealousy is to recognize it and how it might be affecting our friends. It’s important to be honest with ourselves and our friends about our feelings. We don't want to end up making assumptions or acting impulsively. If during a conversation or at a gathering, we start to feel threatened by one of our friends, it’s important for us to speak up to both our friends and ourselves about it. Telling ourselves and our friends how we are feeling can help to reduce the tension and keep relationships strong.

    Having healthy emotional boundaries can also go a long way in finding stability and satisfaction with our friends. It’s important to recognize when we start to feel the pinch of envy, reassess our own expectations and verbalize them if needed. Jealousy can be an uncomfortable emotion, especially when it interferes with our friendship; however, if we practice patience and listen to our own needs, it can also be a great learning experience.

    Avoiding overthinking can be difficult but can also acts as a helpful tool when experiencing jealousy. Pushing away paranoid thoughts and trying to remain grounded can help us pay closer attention to what’s actually happening. Because sometimes a simple explanation can put our worrisome minds at ease. When jealousy surfaces in and around our friends, it’s time to evaluate the source. With a clear head and some mindful conversation, we can work together to better understand our feelings and strengthen our relationships. Jealousy can be a fleeting and persistent emotion, but when addressed properly, our friendships can remain strong and secure.

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