RedRoses Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 There is absolute no specifics here, what do my fellow ladies find hot or not about men, and what do you gentlemen find hot or not about ladies Link to comment
puffdaddycurl Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Now to me its not really the looks that attract me, well let me say yes i do love the looks cause im not going to be a freakin weirdo and go out with someone over weight and pretty ugly lookin (no offence if you are like that) but to me the girl has to have an extreamly great personality, she has to love to talk i could listen to a girl talk for hours. and they need to have a sense of humor cause I love to make a whole bunch of jokes. Now what i dont like is really easy to understand. I hate and i ussually dont use that word but i HATE girls that think there all poular and they can be snobs to freshmen and people younger then them id you need to know more just ask Link to comment
Nobody Special Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 It's not what's hot. It's about the man, I thought I was the sort to go for handsome men, but this guy I really like is ordinary. There's just something about him, that special quality, he makes me feel happy. I seem to smile when he's around, and wonder when he's not there. It just feels right. Link to comment
RedRoses Posted August 21, 2003 Author Share Posted August 21, 2003 actually im not FAT(overweight) and UGLY, my boyfriend constantly praises me....i do have a great sense of humor, i also hate(extremely dislike) snobby girls and guys. In the looks zone, what is the first thing that attracts you to a girl. Link to comment
puffdaddycurl Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 To be completely honest its probobly the legs and then the eyes those are the main things i look at when im talking to a girl. I mean all guys do look at a girls breast im not trying to sound perverted or nothin but its a fact its like a magnetic attraction Link to comment
RedRoses Posted August 21, 2003 Author Share Posted August 21, 2003 i know exactly what you mean Nobody Special...my boyfriend isn't the greatest looking man alive but he is deffinetely adorable in his own way. he makes me feel special everyday, he makes me happy... i remember the days i had the stomach flue, he came over to my house and made me soup, helped my sister with her homework (she's only 10), washed the dishes for me, mind you i was sitting on the couch cuz i couldn't move otherwise i would fall to the ground..it was so sweet...i will always remember those three days...what a sweet heart Link to comment
RedRoses Posted August 21, 2003 Author Share Posted August 21, 2003 i always look at the eyes too...that's the first thing that attracts me to guys...my man has beautiful blue eyes, sometimes they turn a dark green..weird but beautiful. Link to comment
puffdaddycurl Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Man you are so lucky to have someone care for you that much. Are you guys ingaged or still just going out. Link to comment
puffdaddycurl Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Now that just scares me because my eyes goes from dark green to real dark blue but i think its cool how some peoples eyes can do that Link to comment
Nobody Special Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 I was about to say that, the eyes tell alot about the person. The only thing about him I don't like is he smokes and likes football, but I'm not going to ask him to change. That's if I pluck up the courage to ask him out. Link to comment
RedRoses Posted August 21, 2003 Author Share Posted August 21, 2003 actually yes we are...its awsome...mind you when i got sick it was only our 5 month together...my God i love him....he gets so grumpy when he doesn't see me Link to comment
puffdaddycurl Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Now this is for nobody when you say you want him to stop/change do you mean football and smoking or just smoking cause football is the best and to rose from what i hear i think you and him are going to have a great life together Link to comment
RedRoses Posted August 21, 2003 Author Share Posted August 21, 2003 i think so too. we talked to an older friend of ours and she said, so when are you do , i said in 6 years. she said lol..you guys seem like a married couple, i asked why so, she said that we are so devoted to each other Link to comment
Nobody Special Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 No I know he loves smoking and he likes his football. They are my pet hates but I'm not going to tell him to stop smoking or stop watching football just because I hate it. He's his own person, why should I try and change someone who doesn't need changing and is happy the way he is. Link to comment
puffdaddycurl Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Now this is to nobody againm and i think you are right they should change for them selves but if you like him enough you should do what it takes to get him to stop smoking, but that football part that will be pretty har cause nobody will get me away from that tv when my teams on....FALCONS haha sorry got a bit hyped but back to rose i think the same as your friend even though ive known you for only about ten minutes casue you and him are probobly getting married Link to comment
Nobody Special Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 I usually ask people why they smoke and whether they want to stop. He was never pushed into smoking, it was just something he did when he was 16. He smokes because he enjoys it. Why should I stop his pleasurely pursuit. Besides if he stopped smoking, he's put on weight. Link to comment
puffdaddycurl Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 well let me ask you this would you rather him gain around 10-25 more pounds and him live longer with more time for you to spend with him or do you want him to keep pleasuring himself and die in his 40s (i dont really like talkin about this but my dad just had a heart attack and he is only 41 and he almsot died cause half of his heart didnt work now to me i would rather my dad be hundreds of punds bigger than seeing him fall to the ground for the last time) so i think you should get him to stop Link to comment
Nobody Special Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 I'd rather enjoy him happy than miserable. Of course I'd be upset if he got cancer or something else, but it's his decision. Link to comment
puffdaddycurl Posted August 21, 2003 Share Posted August 21, 2003 Ok its your choice i wont force anyone into somthing they dont want to do i hope it goes well with you and him Link to comment
RedRoses Posted August 22, 2003 Author Share Posted August 22, 2003 lucky for me my dad is still alive and kicking, no heart attacks or heart probs. he's been smoking since he was 12 and now he's 49, thats a miracle im thankful for. Link to comment
baby_innocence Posted August 23, 2003 Share Posted August 23, 2003 i used to always think id always fall for the spikey haired, tall, thin, filipino/asian guys...but a guy im currently crushing on his pretty typical looking. he has a baby face, and he is pretty slim, but he's not tall, and his hair isnt spiked either. he even has braces! i dont really mind actually. his looks attracks me, and im just seing what his personality is right now. what's hot? what's hot in a guys personality is a guy that can keep up a conversation. a guy who can be open to a girl. a guy that doesnt feel all tied down when talking to a new girl they havent met before. a guy that's down to earth, and pretty easy to understand. also, a guy that's has a good sense of humor. making a girl laugh is one of many ways to get to a girls heart. i mean, of course a girl would want to go out with a guy that can keep her entertained for hours, on end! what's hot is someone you can hang with forever, and feel so comfortable with. a guy that's has respect for his woman, and would care for her no matter what her decisions in life may be. what's not hot is a guy that's too over-protective. a guy that HAS to always know where his woman is, who she's with, what's she's doing, and the list goes on! that's just not cool dude. what's not hot is a guy that treats his lady as if she'll always be there for him, and takes advantage of that. no, they wont always be there for you, so treasure the time she would use up for you now before she realizes she can get a better man to treat her in a better way. Link to comment
pimpcess Posted August 23, 2003 Share Posted August 23, 2003 What do I look 4 in a man?? Hmmmm.... honesty, trusting, good at communication, outgoing but also laidback, confidence, a good outlook on life, caring, kind, trustworthy, open, originality, spontanaeity, someone that can amaze me and love me and cherish me and shower me with love, someone that looks after themselves, someone with a bigger build, just coz I prefer that, someone that'll be there when times get rough, someone with a shoulder 2 cry on. But, I love a man that smells beautiful! Hmm, I don't know if this man exists, Im still waiting.... Link to comment
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