HotCrisis16 Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 Deleted cuz of privacy Issues. Link to comment
Tigris Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 Welcome to enotalone. It's possible that he's intrested in you for a relationship, but I would advise you to make friends with him first and then see where the friendship leads, because it's safer for you in the long run. Good luck and take care. Link to comment
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Tigris Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 How about something like '(Whatever's) on at the movies I was thinking about going to see it by any chance have you seen it yet?' If he has ask him what he thought about it. If he says he doesn't like that sort of movie then ask him what he likes. If movies aren't your thing then say '(a pop group) is on at wherever will you be going to see it?' Again if he doesn't like them ask what he does like. Or you could say, 'Did you see (such and such) on the tv last night?' There's all sorts of things you could ask to start a conversation off. If you like sport mention sports to him, 'Did you see the football match last night between (whatever)? If he says he doesn't like football then ask him what he does like. Don't make any little white lies up because sooner or later you get found out. Good luck. Link to comment
Imaginary Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 He is smart. You are in math class... just ask him to help you, say you don't understand something or whatever. (But after class... tell him to help you with your homework somewhere during lunch or a break) Link to comment
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mdog Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 uhm...i dont know what to say my thing with guys is i can talk to them and start conversations, but when it comes to askin them to hang out or to do sumthin after school i cant do it, because im always afraid they going to say no, but im getting better at it this year then last year. What i did last year when i wanted to start conversations was (ur probaly gunna laugh but i dont care lol) like have a dialouge thing and like practice it the night before it Me: hey wats up him: nuthin much Me: oic Me: so what did u do this weekend? Him: (w/e he said) Me: oh sweet and then i would have said sumthin what i did or i would have made up sumthin to make myself look "cool" I just kept doin this until i got the hang of it. Link to comment
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Imaginary Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 I used to hate the silence too... you'll get used to it. There are things you could do... like keeping eye contact, or look around and strike a topic from something you see. Try it, you'll get around this eventually. Link to comment
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Tigris Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 It'll get easy the more you talk. Good luck Link to comment
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Tigris Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 Watch and see if he flirts with you or anyone else. Men don't usually invade each others space. You need to start people watching and that will show you how men interact with each other. I had to do that to learn to spot lesbians. Good luck Link to comment
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