Hooking up? Guys I need your opinion

[missmurder22]

Ok, I'm sorry if this doesn't belong in this forum, but I couldn't figure out anywhere else to put it.

 

Ok, so hooking up. I broke up with my boyfriend a while ago, and I think I'd just like to "play around" a bit now. My friends tell me to go a club, but I actually am curious as to how you would hook up there. I mean......loud music and everything, not much of a talking atmosphere. So how do you end up meeting people? Do you just randomly talk to people? And how do you go about "hooking up"? By that I mean like making the proper physical signs or whatever.

 

And let's say it's successful and I start making out with the guy. How do I know it's just a one nighter thing and not a "fling" as you would call it?

[Considerate Empath]

Well you can meet anyone pretty much anywhere, and as for the signs - well eye-contact + a smile is enough I guess for him to come after you. Depends on the guy though.

 

Also - don't kiss him on the first date.

 

 

//C.E.

[sumguy]

"Hooking Up" might have different cultural meanings here, but do you mean you're going out specifically looking for one night stands?